โQ&Aโ -> are you self confident? ๐โโ๏ธ well today I can defin..
Added 2023-03-10 03:06:47 +0000 UTCโQ&Aโ -> are you self confident? ๐โโ๏ธ well today I can definitely say YES! But 2 years ago I was definitely not! Like most of us I was going through a lot of extremely painful experiences in the past! With my family from childhood on , a very aggressive ex boyfriend and much more, so I was the opposite from self confident as you can imagine! At some point I started slowly to wake up . I started to read a lot of books & heard the right podcasts. I started to think about many things differently! It takes constant self reflection and this can hurt a lot but itโs extremely important to not run away from bad memories & experiences! We have to face them and once you did they canโt fear or hurt you anymore! You get over it , learn from it and get stronger & wiser! Itโs important to donโt get bitter instead you should do anything to have a positive attitude & tell yourself even in bad situations-> what can I learn from it? What is it teaching me? Life is about learning & growing! Itโs our choice to give up and being negative and depressed (what only hurts & limits ourselves) or we decide to always stand up again, learn from mistakes and start over optimistically! I decided for myself to go through the way of a positive thinking pattern, to grow, to learn from mistakes instead of judging myself! To take responsibility for everything that I do or donโt do! Because the only one that can make us happy in the long run is ourselves, nobody else! Now I donโt care anymore what other people think about me or talk about me! Itโs not important! Important is if you can live with the decisions you take & with the life you are currently in. If you are notโฆ itโs totally up to you to change it anytime! I did it rapidly! And now I can say that I live a life I seriously love to live with people in it I love and which love me back the same way! No drama anymore, no guilt, no constant stress & pressure! But therefore a lot of freedom & happiness ๐โบ๏ธ๐ -> SORRY FOR THIS ASS LONG TEXT ๐ฑ๐ ๐ I just thought maybe it could help one or another of you! What I seriously hope! Love you ๐๐
